Nurturing Hearts and Minds: Trauma-Informed SEL

In the intricate tapestry of education, we often encounter students with untold stories of resilience and strength, hidden beneath the shadows of past traumas. As educators and caregivers, it is our collective responsibility to create an environment that not only nurtures academic growth but also prioritizes emotional well-being. Enter Trauma-Informed Social-Emotional Learning (SEL), an approach that stands as a beacon of hope for our students who have faced adversity. In this blog article, we embark on a journey to explore the profound impact of trauma-informed SEL in schools and homes, witnessing its transformative power in cultivating resilient hearts and compassionate minds. Join us as we uncover the key elements that make SEL a profound refuge for healing, growth, and academic triumph.

History of Social-Emotional Learning (SEL):

Social-Emotional Learning (SEL) is an educational approach that focuses on nurturing and developing students’ social and emotional skills. It aims to help students understand and manage their emotions, establish positive relationships, demonstrate empathy and compassion, make responsible decisions, and effectively communicate with others. SEL recognizes the importance of fostering emotional intelligence and well-being to enhance students’ overall academic success and prepare them for life beyond the classroom.

  1. Emergence in the 20th Century: The roots of SEL can be traced back to the early 20th century, with early theories in psychology emphasizing the significance of emotional development and interpersonal skills in individuals’ lives.
  2. The Humanistic Psychology Movement: In the 1950s and 1960s, humanistic psychologists, such as Carl Rogers and Abraham Maslow, emphasized the importance of understanding and nurturing human emotions, self-awareness, and self-esteem.
  3. The Social Skills Movement: In the 1970s, there was a growing emphasis on teaching social skills to students, recognizing that interpersonal competence plays a vital role in students’ overall adjustment and academic performance.
  4. Collaborative for Academic, Social, and Emotional Learning (CASEL): In 1994, CASEL was established as a nonprofit organization to promote SEL in educational settings. CASEL has played a pivotal role in advancing research, setting standards, and providing resources for implementing evidence-based SEL programs.
  5. The Recognition of Emotional Intelligence: In the mid-1990s, the concept of emotional intelligence gained prominence, with scholars like Daniel Goleman highlighting the importance of emotional intelligence in personal and professional success.
  6. Introduction of SEL Programs: Throughout the late 1990s and early 2000s, various SEL programs were developed and implemented in schools worldwide. Programs like “Second Step,” “Responsive Classroom,” and “Positive Action” aimed to enhance students’ social and emotional competencies.
  7. Incorporation into Educational Standards: Over time, SEL has been increasingly recognized as an essential component of education. Many educational systems and states in the United States have incorporated SEL into their curriculum and standards.
  8. Research and Validation: A growing body of research in the 21st century has provided strong evidence for the positive impact of SEL on students’ academic achievement, well-being, and long-term success.
  9. Global Adoption: SEL has gained international recognition, with schools and educational institutions around the world embracing SEL principles as part of their holistic approach to education.

Is SEL also TIC?

SEL skills are inherently trauma-informed due to their focus on fostering emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and empathy. Trauma-informed SEL recognizes that many students may have experienced adverse events or challenging circumstances, and it acknowledges the potential impact of trauma on their emotional and social development. Here’s some reasons why Social-Emotional Learnings skills are based on Trauma-Informed Care:

  1. Creating Safe and Supportive Environments: Trauma-informed SEL emphasizes the importance of creating safe and supportive learning environments. By prioritizing emotional safety, students are encouraged to express themselves without fear of judgment or retribution. This supportive atmosphere allows children to build trust with their teachers and peers, fostering a sense of security necessary for healing and growth.
  2. Promoting Emotional Regulation: SEL equips students with essential emotional regulation skills, empowering them to manage their emotions effectively. For students who have experienced trauma, emotions can be overwhelming and challenging to control. Learning techniques to identify, understand, and cope with emotions enables students to navigate their feelings constructively, reducing the risk of triggers and emotional dysregulation.
  3. Encouraging Resilience: Trauma-informed SEL emphasizes the development of resilience in students. By teaching coping strategies and problem-solving skills, students gain the ability to bounce back from adverse experiences, promoting a sense of mastery and self-efficacy. Resilience enables students to face and overcome challenges, a vital aspect of healing from trauma.
  4. Cultivating Empathy and Understanding: SEL activities promote empathy and understanding among students. By encouraging perspective-taking and active listening, trauma-informed SEL fosters a compassionate and empathetic school community. For students who have experienced trauma, feeling understood and supported by peers can be immensely healing.
  5. Addressing Trauma’s Impact on Learning: Trauma can significantly affect a student’s ability to focus, learn, and engage in the classroom. Trauma-informed SEL recognizes and addresses these impacts, providing strategies to support students’ academic progress while considering their emotional well-being.
  6. Building Strong Relationships: Trauma-informed SEL emphasizes building strong and positive relationships between teachers and students. Establishing secure attachments with caring adults can be transformative for students who have experienced trauma, as it provides a reliable source of support and nurturance.
  7. Encouraging Student Agency: Trauma-informed SEL emphasizes empowering students to have agency in their own healing and development. By involving students in setting goals and making decisions about their learning, they gain a sense of control and ownership over their growth process, which can be particularly empowering for those who have experienced trauma.

SEL skills are TIC because they prioritize emotional well-being, foster safe and supportive environments, promote emotional regulation, and encourage resilience and empathy. By incorporating trauma-informed SEL practices in educational settings, we can better support all students, including those who have experienced trauma, on their journey to healing, growth, and academic success.

How do you do SEL?

Here are twenty ways that a classroom or home can can use social-emotional learning skills:

  1. Mindful Breathing: Teach children to practice deep breathing to calm their minds and manage stress.
  2. Emotion Check-In: Encourage students to express their feelings and emotions through check-in sessions at the beginning of the day.
  3. Journaling: Provide students with journals to write about their experiences, emotions, and reflections.
  4. Gratitude Circle: Gather students to share things they are thankful for, fostering a positive and appreciative mindset.
  5. Empathy Role Play: Engage students in role-playing scenarios to develop empathy and understanding of others’ perspectives.
  6. Positive Affirmations: Incorporate daily affirmations to boost self-esteem and promote a positive self-image.
  7. Conflict Resolution: Teach problem-solving strategies and communication skills to handle conflicts constructively.
  8. Growth Mindset Activities: Encourage a growth mindset by celebrating effort, persistence, and learning from mistakes.
  9. Acts of Kindness: Implement acts of kindness challenges, where students perform random acts of kindness for others.
  10. SEL Read-Alouds: Use books with SEL themes to spark discussions and reflections on emotions and social situations.
  11. Mindfulness Exercises: Introduce various mindfulness activities, such as body scans and mindful eating, to promote focus and self-awareness.
  12. SEL Board Games: Utilize board games that promote cooperation, empathy, and emotional intelligence.
  13. Social Skills Charades: Play a game of charades to practice identifying and expressing different emotions and social cues.
  14. Team-Building Activities: Engage students in team-building exercises to foster collaboration and teamwork.
  15. SEL Art Projects: Use art as a medium for students to express their emotions and promote creativity.
  16. SEL Puzzles: Create puzzles with emotions and social situations to encourage problem-solving and emotional recognition.
  17. SEL Videos: Show age-appropriate videos that highlight social-emotional themes for group discussions.
  18. Relaxation Exercises: Lead guided relaxation sessions to help students unwind and manage stress.
  19. SEL Reflection Sheets: Provide reflection sheets for students to assess their emotional states and set goals for improvement.
  20. SEL Appreciation Letters: Encourage students to write appreciation letters to peers, teachers, or family members, recognizing their positive qualities and actions.

Remember that these activities can be adapted based on the age group and preferences of the children. By incorporating these SEL activities into both classroom and home settings, children can develop essential social-emotional skills that will benefit them throughout their lives.

Resources for SEL:

Popular Internet Sites for SEL Resources:

  1. CASEL (Collaborative for Academic, Social, and Emotional Learning): Offers research-based resources, lesson plans, and information on implementing SEL in schools and communities.
    Website: https://casel.org/
  2. Edutopia – Social and Emotional Learning: A collection of articles, videos, and practical tips for integrating SEL into classrooms.
    Website: https://www.edutopia.org/topic/sel-social-emotional-learning
  3. Greater Good Magazine – Education: Provides articles and resources on SEL, mindfulness, and positive psychology for educators and parents.
    Website: https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/education
  4. Understood: Offers resources and support for parents and teachers working with children with learning and attention issues, including SEL strategies.
    Website: https://www.understood.org/en/school-learning/learning-at-home/social-emotional-skills
  5. Teach Starter – Social-Emotional Learning: Provides downloadable resources, posters, and activities to support SEL in the classroom.
    Website: https://www.teachstarter.com/us/teaching-resource-collection/social-emotional-learning-us/

Popular Books on SEL for Parents and Teachers:

These websites and books offer valuable insights, strategies, and practical tools for parents and teachers to support children’s social and emotional development effectively. Whether it’s in the classroom or at home, incorporating SEL practices can positively impact a child’s overall well-being and success.

The Growing Impact of Social-Emotional Learning in Education

  1. “The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind” by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson.
  2. “Mindful Games: Sharing Mindfulness and Meditation with Children, Teens, and Families” by Susan Kaiser Greenland.
  3. “Permission to Feel: Unlocking the Power of Emotions to Help Our Kids, Ourselves, and Our Society Thrive” by Marc Brackett.
  4. “SEL Every Day: Integrating Social and Emotional Learning with Instruction in Secondary Classrooms” by Meena Srinivasan.
  5. “The Self-Driven Child: The Science and Sense of Giving Your Kids More Control Over Their Lives” by William Stixrud and Ned Johnson.
  6. “The Power of Showing Up: How Parental Presence Shapes Who Our Kids Become and How Their Brains Get Wired” by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson.
  7. “Teaching Kids to Thrive: Essential Skills for Success” by Debbie Silver, Dedra Stafford, and Jack C. Berckemeyer.
  8. “Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child: The Heart of Parenting” by John Gottman and Joan DeClaire.
  9. “The Emotionally Intelligent Parent: How to Raise a Self-Disciplined, Responsible, Socially Skilled Child” by Maurice J. Elias and Steven E. Tobias.
  10. “Lost at School: Why Our Kids with Behavioral Challenges are Falling Through the Cracks and How We Can Help Them” by Ross W. Greene.

The Promising Future of SEL in TIC

The McGraw Hill survey conducted in July 2021 highlighted a positive trend in the United States. More than half of the educators surveyed reported that their schools had already embraced SEL curriculum, indicating a shift towards recognizing the value of addressing students’ social and emotional needs.

As SEL continues to gain momentum, it will undoubtedly play an instrumental role in shaping the future of education. By prioritizing the emotional well-being of students, educational institutions can create nurturing environments where students flourish academically and emotionally. SEL empowers students with crucial life skills that extend beyond the classroom, contributing to their overall personal and professional success.

Helping Children Focus in School After Trauma…

When children experience trauma, it can be difficult to focus and stay engaged in the classroom. Fortunately, many social-emotional learning activities can help children develop the skills they need to stay focused and engaged in the classroom. Here are 10 ways children can use social-emotional learning activities to help them focus in the classroom after experiencing trauma.

1. Positive Self-Talk: Positive self-talk can be a powerful tool for helping children to stay focused and engaged in the classroom. Encourage your child to practice positive self-talk by repeating mantras and affirmations to themselves throughout the day. This will help them to stay positive and motivated, even when facing challenging tasks.

2. Mindfulness: Mindfulness activities can help children to stay in the present moment and pay attention to what is happening in the classroom. Encourage your child to practice mindfulness activities like deep breathing and body scans to help them stay focused and engaged.

3. Visualization: Visualization activities can help children to create positive images in their minds, which can help them stay focused and engaged in the classroom. Encourage your child to practice visualization activities, such as imagining a peaceful place or positive future, to help them stay on task.

4. Social Skills: Social skills can help children stay engaged in the classroom and positively interact with their peers. Encourage your child to practice social skills, such as active listening, problem-solving, and conflict resolution.

5. Emotional Regulation: Emotional regulation activities can help children to manage their emotions and stay focused in the classroom. Encourage your child to practice emotional regulation activities like deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, and positive self-talk.

6. Self-Awareness: Self-awareness activities can help children to understand their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors. Encourage your child to practice self-awareness activities such as journaling, reflecting on their experiences, and talking to a trusted adult.

7. Goal Setting: Goal-setting activities can help children to stay focused and motivated in the classroom. Encourage your child to set short-term goals that are achievable and to create a plan for how to reach those goals.

8. Problem-Solving: Problem-solving activities can help children to think flexibly and stay focused in the classroom. Encourage your child to practice problem-solving activities, such as brainstorming, making lists, and breaking down tasks into smaller steps.

9. Self-Care: Self-care activities can help children to stay focused and engaged in the classroom. Encourage your child to practice self-care activities such as getting enough sleep, eating healthy meals, and engaging in physical activity.

10. Connecting With Others: Connecting with others can help children to stay focused and engaged in the classroom. Encourage your child to connect with peers by talking to them, listening to their stories, and engaging in conversations.

Ron Huxley can help your and your child focus and learn after dealing with stress and trauma. Ron Huxley is a licensed therapist specializing in anxiety and trauma. Contact him today!

The Calm Classroom: 10 Trauma Sensitive Tools

Trauma impacts children’s ability to stay calm and focus. It disrupts normal developmental growth and makes learning hard. Parents and teachers can use these 10 trauma sensitive tools to have a calmer classroom (and home):

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Model Emotional Self-Regulation by naming and responding to intense feelings.

Clear, Assertive, Comfortable Communication establishes trust and structure.

Use Suggestion Boxes and allow students to express needs and have a voice in their world.

Use “Two-By-Ten” to challenge students for 10 minutes two times a day to build connections.

Use Calming Corners filled with sensory items and thinking puzzles.

Consider Classroom Design to organize, label, and give clear directions.

School Discipline Policies can be communicated clearly and allow students to ask questions to increase ownership and empowerment.

Say “Ouch/Oops” to model social emotional learning skills and manage hurt feelings and conflicts in the classroom.

Take “Brain Breaks” throughout the day to stay grounded, prevent dissociation, and keep present focused.

Use Culturally Responsive and Faith-Based activities to allow the child to feel safe and comfortable and bridge trauma tools used in the home.

These are just a few of the trauma-informed tools and tips you can use when you take our free course at TraumaToolbox.com or contact Ron about holding a trauma-informed workshop at your school or agency. Email Ron at rehuxley@gmail.com or call 805-709-2023 today.

40% of Students Exposed to Traumatic Stress

According to a recent article by Greater Good Magazine “Data suggests that, on average, every classroom has at least one student affected by trauma. According to the National Child Traumatic Stress Network, close to 40 percent of students in the U.S. has been exposed to some form of traumatic stressor in their lives, with sexual assault, physical assault, and witnessing domestic violence being the three most prevalent.”

Fortunately, we can use trauma-informed learning tools to help! Visit our online course for more information for your child and your school: http://TraumaToolbox.com 

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The Emotionally Regulated Classroom

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It’s been reported that one out of every four children attending school has been exposed to a traumatic event that can affect their learning and/or behavior. Educators need the right information, with the right tools, to be prepared at the right time.

When children have experienced chronic and pervasive trauma, their thinking skills are literally hijacked by their emotional brain, shutting down their ability to focus, initiate tasks, follow directions, organize work, and control impulses. Everything a child needs to be successful in school.

The Emotionally Regulated Classroom:

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Educators can model emotional self-regulation for their students.

They can demonstrate how to notice, name, and respond to intense feelings instead of reacting to them. Doing so, will build resilience within and beyond the classroom.

Educators can use classroom design to prepare a space that promotes self-regulation. Classrooms should, generally, be well organized, clean, well-labeled, and provide resources for overwhelmed students.

Many of the principles and techniques used to interact with students with trauma are broadly applicable to conversations with all students.

Clear, assertive, comfortable communication can establish trust and provide structure.

However, it is important for educators to realize that the emotional and social needs of students with trauma are different.

Students should be made aware, in a clear, specific fashion, what their teachers and staff expect of them.

School discipline policies should be communicated at the beginning of the year to all students, faculty, and staff, and should be consistently described.

Allowing students an opportunity to inquire about, and even challenge, rules, will increase their sense of procedural justice.

If students perceive the procedures as basically transparent and fair, they are more likely to go along with an individual decision or policy they do not agree with.

Regulation Strategies for the Classroom:

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One strategy to regulated the classroom is called “Two Before Me.”

In a group discussion, a student may initially speak up whenever they have the opportunity & are called on.

However, after speaking, a student must wait for at least two other people to speak before they can raise their hand or contribute again.

This prevents conversations from being dominated by a limited few people and can reduce conflict/arguments.

Another strategy is the “Suggestion Box.”

Students with trauma often find it scary to communicate their needs or express displeasure.

Students who have been neglected may not be used to identifying or sharing needs at all.

To encourage these students to express their needs, supply them with a suggestion box or cubby hole in a circumspect place in your classroom.

Set aside a weekly or monthly time where the contents of the box are discussed or provide written answers to students concerns on a bulletin board.

You can name this box something other than a suggestion box. Perhaps call it a comment box or question box or come up with a name the class decides together. Remind students that it is OK to write feelings they are uncomfortable to say out loud as long as the feeling is not directed at a specific person, or intended to cause harm.

In the “Ouch/Oops” strategy,  the classroom learns how to manage hurt feelings and resolve conflicts.

If your class adopts this rule, anyone is free to say “Ouch” if something a peer or teacher says rubs them the wrong way.

For example, if someone said something hurtful, accusatory, or generally offensive, the person who caused the “Ouch” is required to say “Oops”. It is then up to the person who said “Ouch” to determine how the conflict should be resolved, like having a private discussion or a mediation with the teacher or other peers.

Educators will need to watch for misuses of this strategy, such as a student using “Ouch” frequently to derail a conversation or target a disliked peer. Also, students may “Ouch” something benign a teacher says that they don’t like, such as assignment due date. And students may refuse to respond with an “Oops” if there are no firm rules on it.

If necessary, educators may want to restrict this strategy to personal discussions to prevent misuse.  Generally speaking, older students are somewhat more likely to use “Ouch/Oops” strategy correctly but with some practice, it can be a useful regulation tool for all ages.

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