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11% of U.S. Children Are Diagnosed With ADHD: What the Increase Means:

The rates of U.S. children affected by attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) are skyrocketing, according to a recent report, but experts caution that the latest numbers require a bit of decoding.

That information shows that 11% of children ages 4 to 17 were diagnosed with ADHD, a 16% increase since 2007, the last time that researchers at Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) did a comprehensive survey for the prevalence of the neurobehavior disorder. The rise was especially dramatic among boys, with an estimated 1 in 5 boys in high school diagnosed with ADHD. What’s more, about two-thirds of the children diagnosed were treated with stimulant medications that can improve attention but also come with side effects.

Are rates truly climbing at such an alarming rate? Possibly. But many experts believe that’s unlikely. The data was collected by the CDC and analyzed and reported by the New York Times; the CDC plans to publish its own report on the data in the coming months.

Read more: http://healthland.time.com/2013/04/02/understanding-the-rise-in-adhd-diagnoses-11-of-u-s-children-are-affected/#ixzz2PPF7CdRv

7 Amazing Ways to Be Creative Like a Child

Creativity is like the ebb and flow of waves in an ocean.

There are periods in your life when you may feel very creative.

But there may be other periods where you experience the creative doldrums.

Ideas stop coming to you.

You attempt to sit down with pen and paper but it seems like an exercise in frustration.

If you are like me, you might have wondered how to jump-start the creative process.

If you want to find a source of how to be endlessly creative and find inspiration when none is to be found, rediscover the child inside of yourself with these 7 actionable ideas.

1.  Reconnect with Amazement and Wonder

 “Wonder is the beginning of wisdom.” ― Socrates

One of the major lessons in creativity that you can learn from a child is being repeatedly amazed at the beauty and joy of life. Children are endlessly curious. As you grow up, you lose some of that child-like wonder and begin acting more like an adult.

Amazement and wonder transform into habitual motion through life. I challenge you to do a small exercise right now. For a few minutes, look at your surroundings and at life through the lens of a child.

Bring back some of that wonder and amazement and the wide-eyed surprise and joy of navigating through life.

Allow yourself to experience great lengths of curiosity. Ask yourself and others questions that you would otherwise not ask as an adult. Allow yourself the joy of looking at the ever-changing landscape of life through a filter of wonder. Be unabashedly curious.

Journal your ideas and the outcome of wearing the curiosity filter. Set up an idea box where you get to gather different sources of information that inspire your creative process.

2. Believe that the impossible is possible

 “In the beginner’s mind there are many possibilities, In the expert’s mind there are few.” ~ Zen Master Shunryo Suzuki

Why is it that when you grow up and become an adult, your possibilities narrow down to almost nothing? There was a time when you were a child and believed that anything was possible. You believed that you could be anything, create anything, sing anything and make anything.

But then life happened to you and people kept saying what you should do and what you should not do.

Slowly but surely you became inhibited and stopped dancing in front of others. You began believing that your song should not be shared with the world and that it is not safe to be you.

So you pretended.

When you were a child, you pretended to be whatever you wanted to be. As you grew up, you pretended to be what others wanted you to be. The sparkle in the eyes slowly faded away to transform into worry and fear.

In his TED talk, celebrated Korean novelist Young-ha Kim challenges you to invoke and unleash your inner child and makes a call to action: “Be an artist, right now!”

I challenge you to believe that the dream of yours that you have been imagining is certainly possible. Grasp the notion that you may have lived a life to please others so far but you can still sing your own song.

You can choose to step into the field of possibility and embrace true creative abundance.

Reconnect with your inner playful child and begin to believe that the impossible is possible. When you approach creativity from the standpoint of endless possibility, you have a better chance to crack the creative lull.

3. Work is play

We have all seen children play together. They have the incredible ability to make daily life look like play and infuse it with laughter and joy.

Do you remember how playful you were as a child? As you grew into an adult, you trained yourself to be serious and control your natural inclination for joy and laughter.

In an attempt to bring play back into work, many big companies such as Google have begun incorporating concepts of a playful workspace.

You might have trained yourself to be very serious at work but if you lighten up and be relaxed, it is a lot more pleasurable. Children have the ability to get together in groups and infuse the area with lightness and play.

Creating a light hearted and joyful working environment will certainly make the experience of work more enjoyable and I am willing to take a guess that your productivity may also go up.

In Dr. Tina Seelig’s creativity classes at Stanford University, the classroom resembles a pre-school with manipulatives and crayons and students sitting on the floor in small groups. This opens up the imagination and sets the tone and mood for a ripe session of unbridled creativity.

You are expected to be highly creative at the workplace and come up with solutions but the mood and the cubicles do little to set the imagination in motion. In fact, even standing up and moving around breaks the monotony of working at the desk and gets the creative energy flowing.

Have you seen children sit perfectly still at a bench and work for extended periods of time? Left to their devices, children move around and express their magic in motion and in art.

Make some time to set up your work area to inspire your creativity and not to suffocate it.

4. Connect and combine

Children have the amazing ability to connect and combine things and aspects of their experience in amazingly creative ways. They can come up with combinations that seem outrageous at the outset but this precise ability is vastly lost as we become adults.

Often creative solutions emerge by the synthesis and mixing and matching of different aspects. This is demonstrated by the power of mind mapping, a technique invented and popularized by Tony Buzan.

Beginning in the center of an empty sheet of paper with a central idea, mind maps pictorially or graphically radiate outwards and sideways. As the mind map makes associations, it develops second and third levels with curved branches connecting them.

These associations connect and combine different levels together and make new levels of synthesis of information and ideas possible.

How can you combine different elements and mix and match them to come to a creative solution?

5. Simplicity and focus

 “Truly wonderful the mind of a child is.” ~ Master Yoda in the movie Star Wars-Episode II – Attack of the Clones

Children exhibit the qualities of simplicity and focus quite abundantly. They frequently seem to come up with brilliantly simple and elegant solutions to complicated problems. When you were a child, you were not yet trained that simple and elegant solutions were not beautiful or effective.

As we grew up, our thinking brain calibrated itself to ignore solutions that seem too simple to be true.
You talk yourself out of what might be a seemingly simple solution and instead you may dabble around in unnecessary complexity.

You may get caught up in the quagmire of complexity and hence the required action is not taken and things just sit on the back burner.

The attention that children bring to the table is focused engagement. As you grew up, you become overly focused on the outcome of an event and that lead to a tunnel vision of choices.

Children are more interested to engage their attention in the journey and usually seem less concerned with the outcome.

When we open ourselves to the state of being open to the different outcomes, we open our tunnel vision up and get up on a cliff to see and savor the scenery.

The reason that children exude the simple brilliance is because they are constantly testing things out for themselves to see if they like the experience or not. Their thought process remains fluid, flexible and simple.

Allow the flexibility and fluidity of the simple thought process. If you allow yourself the flexibility of thinking like a child, you open up to more possibilities.

6. Being present: the state of flow

 “May what I do flow from me like a river, no forcing and no holding back, the way it is with children.” ~Rainer Maria Rilke

Children just seem to be highly present in the moment. Children can effortlessly move with the grace of a ballerina and paint with the grace of a tiny Picasso.

As an adult, you might struggle to experience the state of flow and bring the state of heightened awareness and effortless action to your work and play.

But as a child, you were in a state of flow quite effortlessly. You did not have to struggle or make a massive attempt at it. You just were.

If you allow yourself to move through life with more ease and drop off some of the resistance, you begin to experience flow. Focus your attention and engage deeply with a project to experience the state of effortless being.

Sharpen your skills of observation by being present to the current moment. Live in the now and observe for solutions that you might otherwise miss.

7. Breaking assumptions

Children are constantly breaking assumptions about how something needs to be done. This may be because they have not yet trained their minds to automate their thinking and doing processes.

They can bring a fresh new perspective to a situation that appears to be a boring idea.

They naturally create novelty by breaking the assumptions about how things ought to be. It is in these seemingly useless but novel combinations that the essence of radical creativity lurks waiting to be tapped.

Your creativity is waiting for you to unleash your inner child. Are you ready?

What do you think that you can learn from a child about curiosity and creativity?

7 Amazing Ways to Be Creative Like a Child

• Assess your child’s risk. A youngster who is generally doing well in life – happy, well adjusted, engaged with the family – generally poses less risk for potential problems than one with a family history of drug or alcohol abuse, depression or in the midst of a family crisis. If your son falls in the high risk category, I would urge you to get outside professional help to nip any serious problems in the bud.

• Be cautious about punishments. If there is no history of addiction in your family tree and you are certain that your son is generally doing well socially, emotionally and academically, focus on keeping the lines of communication open. If your teen is afraid of your reaction, it is unlikely that he will continue to confide in you. Punishing him may simply encourage him to become better at hiding any future use from you.

• Strengthen connection. When we feel seen, understood and cherished by someone, it is much harder to keep secrets from them. Teens often give us signals that suggest they aren’t interested in having us around, but look for ways to keep nourishing the connection you and your son share – cooking together, walking the dog or even chatting about music or sports while you unload the dishwasher together. The more he feels anchored to you as his North Star, the less influenced he will be by peer pressure.

• Talk with him about how he felt when he smoked. If he tells you that he really liked it, discuss why drugs and alcohol make people feel better. Explain the way the brain works, and the impact these substances can have on lowering inhibition or lifting mood –temporarily.

• Model healthy ways of unwinding. Consider what your son sees you doing to relax at the end of the day, or when you socialize with your friends. If you have a glass of wine the minute you get home from work or immediately open a six-pack when friends show up, you may be “teaching” him that enjoyment cannot happen without some kind of substance. Show him you can enjoy life without leaning on something to help you lower your inhibitions or numb out, and you will send the message that he can do the same.

• Don’t force unwanted advice. Instead, ask him if he would be open to listening to your concerns. Explain that while you understand “everyone” may be smoking weed or drinking, the stress relief many kids experience while under the influence of pot or alcohol can quickly become at least psychologically addicting, and that there are better – and healthier – ways of handling social anxiety and pressures. Show him the impact these substances have on the brain; there are some great scans at brainplace.com.

•Keep your eyes open. If you start to sense that your son’s use has escalated beyond normal experimentation, do not hesitate to set guidelines that send him a clear message that it is not okay. At 15, his brain is still in a vulnerable and formative stage, and it is your responsibility to help him make sound decisions that preserve his health and safety. Some kids tell me that they actually appreciate it when their parents tell them that they might start conducting random drug tests; it makes it easier way to say “No” at a party if they can tell their buddies, “I can’t; my parents are drug testing me.”

10 Day Parenting Challenge

Are you the type of parent you thought you would be or are you everything you said you would NEVER be?

Are you wanting to be a better parent starting immediately?

Parenting can be hard and is often full of disappointments but it is never TOO LATE to transform yourself and your children into the family you dreamed you would be.

If you are serious about wanting to make some big changes in your family relationships, take our 10 Day Challenge by following the steps by clicking here.

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Family Journals: Tens Ways to Improve Your Health and Relationships


By Ron Huxley, LMFT 
http://www.parentingtoolbox.com 

Journaling has long been a tool to achieving better emotional and 
mental health. The need to express oneself in a safe and controlled 
manner is a powerful means to improving self-esteem and personal 
relationships. Parents can use this tool to increase their 
effectiveness and satisfaction with family members. Here are ten ways 
that a journal will help parents: 

1. Tell your family story. What better way to immortalize your life 
than to write about it in a journal? You can create a memoir of your 
life growing up, describe the many branches on your family tree, or 
just make a scrapbook of your life. Children can benefit by learning 
their family history and discover whom they are in relation to past 
generations. Parents will find clues to family dysfunction and 
strengths by exploring their familial history. 

2. Share yourself with family members. Most people keep their 
journals private but choosing a sister or child to share a journal 
with can close the gap on distant relationships or bring close one’s 
even closer. Swap separate journals for family members to read, keep 
a family journal that is free for all to read and write, or create a 
journal to express thoughts, feelings, and dreams with a particular 
family member. 

3. Organize yourself…emotionally and spiritually. Whenever I go to 
the store, I make a list. If I don’t I am sure to forget something. 
Probably a few “something’s”. Writing things down helps me recall 
what I need to buy. Journaling will help you remember the emotional 
and spiritual items you need in your life. Some of this items you may 
not have known you needed and others will be one’s that you know you 
need but haven’t had the courage to go out there and get it. 
Journaling is the first step in that spiritual grocery store 
shopping. 

4. Track your emotions, moods, and experiences over time. Monday was 
a high-energy day. Tuesday, I felt depressed and lethargic. 
Wednesday, I started to climb out of it. Thursday, I felt better but 
had difficulty focusing. You get the picture, right? Journals will 
help you map the highs and lows of your week, month, or year so that 
you can plan your life accordingly. What mood ring can do that for 
you? 

5. Unburden yourself and let go of old hurts. You’ve carried that old 
emotional baggage for how many years now? Isn’t it time to let it go 
and move forward feeling a little lighter on the emotional load. You 
can let go of the hurts and fears you inherited from childhood that 
have clung to you through adulthood and affected all of your 
important relationships. Release them into a journal and really live 
life to the fullest. Because you are anonymous, this is your 
opportunity to say it all and unburden yourself so that you can have 
freer, more productive relationships with your family instead of 
venting it all at them. 

6. Clarify and achieve your dreams, goals, and aspirations. Any 
successful life planner, motivational speaker, or therapist will tell 
you that in order to achieve a goal or dream you must write it down. 
Journals are a great way to realizing that goal or dream. While the 
path of life and relationships seems confusing and chaotic, a look 
back, into your journal, will reveal some very clear patterns that 
will help you in your future journeying. 

7. Share your wisdom (life experiences) with others. I may not be an 
expert on life but I have had my share of successes and failures. So 
have you. Together we can learn and grow more than either of us could 
have done alone. Use journals to write down your mistakes so your 
children do not make the same one’s or share a few tips about life 
that you wish your parents had shared with you. It’s not too late. 

8. Glimpse the world through the eyes of another person. Journals 
allow you to see life from the perspective of another’s culture, 
geography, beliefs, age, and gender. Take a trip around the world or 
through time simply by reading a family journal. Ask family members 
to describe you or your childhood. You may be surprise by what you 
learn when others look at you and your life. 

9. Challenge your beliefs and enrich your life. Master therapists 
tell us that in order to change your life you must change your 
thoughts or beliefs. Doing this on your own is difficult if not 
impossible. Journals are a great way to analyze those thoughts that 
get in the way of good mental health and better family relationships. 

10. Realize you are not alone! Have you had a loved one pass away? 
Suffered a divorce or financial loss? Had a prodigal child leave 
home? Anyone who has suffered a loss or felt the weight of depression 
knows how lonely that can be. It feels like no one could possibly 
understand the pain you feel. Family Journals remind you know that 
you are never alone and that hope is just one entry away! 

The Psychology of Hope

How much do we need this in modern families today?

Unfortunately, only half of us measure high in hope, Lopez notes in the book. Fortunately, however, hope can be learned. Hopeful people share four core beliefs, according to Lopez:

  1. The future will be better than the present.
  2. I have the power to make it so.
  3. There are many paths to my goals.
  4. None of them is free of obstacles.

Hope includes a range of emotions, such as joy, awe and excitement. But it’s not empty, tunnel-vision enthusiasm. Hope is a combination of your head and heart, Lopez writes. He describes hope as “the golden mean between euphoria and fear. It is a feeling where transcendence meets reason and caution meets passion.”

How to speak to your child’s subcouncious

Children with strong positive beliefs about their own social skills, learning skills and emotional skills have such a great resource to take them forward allowing them to not only create a wonderful life for themselves, but also to contribute positively to the lives of others.

So what are some of the things we can do to develop a strong belief system in the unconscious of our young children?

  1. Make up stories and repeat them (with or without variations) that demonstrate the kinds of values and characteristics you want your child to emulate.
  2. Play mostly music and songs that have the kinds of words you want to be repeated in your child’s subconscious.
  3. Be expressive with your loving feelings – let your child know how very loved they are in your words and actions. Try making up songs or games about how much you love each other.
  4. Allow your child to move through her/his own feelings and support them in those feelings rather than simply “fixing” the problem. For example, if your child is feeling left out, allow them the dignity of their feelings (don’t take them on yourself), and then once they’ve had a chance to express them, help them brainstorm potential solutions. Encourage them to try different options and talk about what happens.
  5. Find out where your child’s blocks may be through games. For example, in his book The Optimist Child, psychology professor Martin Seligmann outlines simple, fun, “detective-based” approaches parents can use to help uncover their children’s negative beliefs, and support them in developing more accurate and more empowering positive beliefs.
  6. Find ways to express anger in appropriate and safe ways.

Surprising Rate of Women Have Depression After Childbirth

CHICAGO — A surprisingly high number of women have postpartum depressive symptoms, according to a new, large-scale study by a Northwestern Medicine® researcher.

This is the largest scale depression screening of postpartum women and the first time a full psychiatric assessment has been done in a study of postpartum women who screened positive for depression.

The study, which included a depression screening of 10,000 women who had recently delivered infants at single obstetrical hospital, revealed a large percentage of women who suffered recurrent episodes of major depression.

The study underscored the importance of prenatal as well as postpartum screening. Mothers’ and infants’ health and lives hang in the balance. The lives of several women who were suicidal when staff members called them for the screening were saved likely as a result of the study’s screening and immediate intervention.

“In the U.S., the vast majority of postpartum women with depression are not identified or treated even though they are at higher risk for psychiatric disorders,” said Northwestern Medicine lead study author Katherine L. Wisner, M.D. “It’s a huge public health problem. A woman’s mental health has a profound effect on fetal development as well as her child’s physical and emotional development.”

Wisner is director of Northwestern’s Asher Center for the Study and Treatment of Depressive Disorders and the Norman and Helen Asher Professor of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences and professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine. She’s also a physician at Northwestern Memorial Hospital.

“A lot of women do not understand what is happening to them,” Wisner said. “They think they’re just stressed or they believe it is how having a baby is supposed to feel.”

The paper was be published in JAMA Psychiatry March 13. Wisner conducted the research when she was at the University of Pittsburgh.

In the study, 14 percent of the women screened positive for depression. Of that group, 826 received full psychiatric assessments during at-home visits. Some of the key findings from those assessments:

– In women who screened positive for depression, 19.3 percent thought of harming themselves.

“Most of these women would not have been screened and therefore would not have been identified as seriously at risk,” Wisner said. “We believe screening will save lives.”

Suicide accounts for about 20 percent of postpartum deaths and is the second most common cause of mortality in postpartum women.

– Many women who screened positive for major depression postpartum had already experienced at least one episode of depression previously and, in addition, had an anxiety disorder. The study found 30 percent of women had depression onset prior to pregnancy, 40 percent postpartum and 30 percent during pregnancy. More than two-thirds of these women also had an anxiety disorder.

“Clinicians need to know that the most common clinical presentation in the post-birth period is more complex than a single episode of depression,” Wisner said. “The depression is recurrent and superimposed on an anxiety disorder.“

– Of the women who screened positive for major depression, 22 percent had bipolar disorder, the majority of whom had not been diagnosed by their physicians. There is often a delay in correctly diagnosing bipolar disorder, which depends on identifying not only the depressed phase but the manic or hypomanic phase as well. But postpartum is the highest risk period for new episodes of mania in a woman’s life.

“That’s a very high rate of bipolar disorder that has never been reported in a population screened for postpartum depression before,” said Wisner. “It is significant because antidepressant drug treatment alone can worsen the course of bipolar disorder.”

In addition, women who have been pregnant in the past year are less likely to seek treatment for depression than women who have not been pregnant, previous research has shown.

Maximizing a woman’s overall mental and physical health in pregnancy and after childbirth is critically important.

“Depression during pregnancy increases the risk to a woman and her fetus,” Wisner said. “Depression is a physiological dysregulation disorder of the entire body.”

Maternal prenatal stress and depression is linked to preterm birth and low infant birth weight, which increases the risk of cardiovascular disease. Depression also affects a woman’s appetite, nutrition and prenatal care and is associated with increased alcohol and drug use. Women with untreated depression have a higher body mass index preconception, which carries additional risks.

When a new mother is depressed, her emotional state can interfere with child development and increases the rate of insecure attachment and poor cognitive performance of her child, Wisner said.

Screening prenatal and postpartum are essential (Illinois requires mandatory screening for perinatal mental health disorders), but the health care field must develop cost effective and accessible treatment, Wisner emphasized.

“If we identify patients we must have treatment to offer them,” Wisner said.

The study was funded by grant RO1 MH 071825 from the National Institute of Mental Health of the National Institutes of Health.

Surprising Rate of Women Have Depression After Childbirth